So, I’m kean on self growth and that starts with accepting my downfalls. I am never content with just being ..me. I want to be the best me that I can be, there’s nothing wrong with that right?
Here are 5 of my bad habits that I am really trying to kick…
LACK OF MOTIVATION
I have discussed this topic at length in 2 of my other posts (here & here), and I really think I’m getting the hang of it, getting out of a rut, I mean. I’m learning that it has to be a lifestyle choice that you make that paves the way to change, it won’t happen over night. It also wont be easy, but what other choice do you have?
People always tell me that I don’t have confidence in my ability to do things. It’s not really a surprise considering I was not exactly positively reinforced as a child. It holds me back from achieving my dreams at times, and not to mention it’s a complete waste of time. I guess I find it hard to know where to draw the line between confidence and arrogance. So I linger on the safe side of modesty.
STRUGGLING TO SAY “NO”
This is a big one and probably the hardest. I hate letting people down, even if that means I exert myself in the process. I have always had a fear of being judged or not liked. So in turn I aim to please everyone. But I’m learning now, that not everyone will like me, and that’s ok. I am learning that to put that energy into myself and to say no, without justifying it, is also ok.
PLANNING TOO FAR AHEAD/ NOT LIVING FOR NOW
I have been guilty of this for a life time. With my obsession to organise evidently comes an excitement for planning, and not just for tomorrow, but years from now. I can safely say that I’m kicking this bad habit the most. I have learned to open my eyes and look at what I have right now, and enjoy it for what it is. The people closest to me have definitely noticed my more chilled back approach to life, and plus I feel less stressed this way.
Quite frankly I’d rather spend time with my partner and my little boy than anyone else, but wouldn’t we all? I always make excuses not to attend anything sociable, but I think I’m becoming a hermit, which surely isn’t healthy. I aren’t suddenly going to become the life and soul of every party in town but I definitely need to make more of an effort with people. At the very least, for my own sanity.
Do you have any bad habits? or any tips for me to kick these habits once and for all?
Thank-you for reading