Men are from Mars..apparently, so why not tap into their brains about their thoughts on us chicks from Venus. Men simply don’t talk enough! So I took my opportunity to get the low-down on what men really think about women and relationships…
WHAT DO YOU LOOK FOR IN PHYSICAL APPEARANCE?
WHAT DO YOU LOOK FOR IN PERSONALITY?
Don’t take themselves too seriously
A good laugh/can crack a joke
WHAT MAKES A GUY COMMIT?
When all the boxes are ticked, then it’s considered. It depends on current lifestyle and whether they are ready for a relationship… right time right person.
DO YOU LIKE IT WHEN A GIRL PLAYS HARD TO GET?
Yes and no. I have to know that they are playing hard to get. I don’t want them to be super easy with no challenge, but I don’t want them to be playing stupid games. I want to be the person who makes the effort (chaser) but I don’t want to play games. I want to know they are interested and know where I stand.
WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON GIRLS WEARING MAKE-UP
It’s alright as long as it’s not OOT. The more natural the better.
WHAT DO YOU THINK OF GIRLS THAT GO BARE, DO YOU PREFER THEM TO WEAR MAKEUP?
No, only if they are super ugly, haha! They don’t have to wear it 24/7. I want to know what I am getting into. If she has to wear it 24/7 that might influence my decision on whether I stick around, haha.
IF YOU WENT ON A DATE AND DIDN’T LIKE THE GIRL, HOW WOULD YOU TELL HER?
Face to face I’d be polite. I would respond to a text if she text first but slowly stop texting. If they don’t get the hint..I don’t have a problem telling them, it’s just a bit harsh so I’d rather phase it out.
WHAT DO YOU LOOK FOR IN CONVERSATION TOPICS?
When they talk about themselves (if they’re interesting).
A shared interest. I Wouldn’t be interested in make-up/girly/pompous shit.
I Look for a friendship level in terms of conversation.
WHAT’S YOUR BIGGEST TURN-OFF/BAD HABITS YOU CAN’T IGNORE?
If a girl is gossipy/bitchy and if they have bad teeth/breath.
IF YOU COULD GIVE A GIRL RELATIONSHIP ADVICE WHAT WOULD IT BE?
Keep it steamy in the bedroom.
Be supportive with their passions.
Don’t be selfish, compromise
Keep arguments to a minimum.
DESCRIBE YOUR PERFECT DATE
A few drinks to calm the nerves straight away
Some dancing involved in a club
And finally throw in something random/spontaneous
WHAT OUTFIT DO GUYS FIND THE HOTTEST?
A body-con dress. Something classy but sexy.
The shoes are the last thing I care about..she could be bare foot.. to assess whether she has monkey feet or not hahaha.
If you are male and reading this, do you agree with these statements? is there anything that you would add?
What did you ladies think? Did anything surprise you? Would you have liked to hear an answer to another question? What do your men have to say to these questions?
Let me know what questions you would like answering and I’ll do a part two!